Now, before I update you on what we have been doing, I must get a little deep and real with you, as being here striving forward with our adventure, allowing a dream to unfold, it has allowed my emotions to flow.
Have you ever had a dream or vision that you shared with
someone only to be told all the different reasons that they don't think you will succeed? Or they get really excited for you, but know that it is just a pipe dream that will never be followed through? I believe our friends and family mean no harm by it, but it is easier for them to be on the passive side than the optimistic side. Face it, we have been programmed by fear! Fear holds us back from achieving all our life's endeavours. Those who break through that boundary of fear we read about in newspapers, magazines and books. We marvel in their experiences as we live vicariously through them, but never thinking for once that we too can achieve the unknowns. We want to be encouraged, we want to pursue all the things that ignite our soul. To feel that sense of freedom to think and do; not fear failure, or disappointment by those we love and admire. Most of us never see our dreams come true, we have only become really good dreamers caught often daydreaming over our morning cup of coffee, afternoon work break, or evening drive home. Society has formed a mould that each one of us is expected to live by and when one slips through that mould they are first frowned upon but after they have succeeded they are heros, mentors, admired, respected!
Through my youth I have never been a follower, always a standout leader. I don't like to conform, or be patronized, nor told what I can and can't do. I don't believe anyone in this world has authority over me and I certainly don't see that as a fault or a bad personality trait. My parents did a great job of raising me, although I am sure there are certain characteristics that drive them crazy but would never be able to change and possible not what to. What they gave me was freedom. Freedom to think, speak, create and love. With this responsibility of freedom comes a life of being laid back and not stressing out over every little detail. It allows me to think openly, speak honestly, create my visions, and love unconditionally. So, you can understand when someone tries to tame this beloved freedom, my world grows dark and unmanageable. Who knows maybe some of you reading this understand what I am talking about but live in a life of darkness, looking for an escape. If this is true my advice to you is not to blame anyone around you for the life you lead we all have the power to be who we want to be and it is up to us to strive forward and make that difference big or small. Do something for yourself, change what needs to be changed and if this is in your opinion not possible that learn to adapt and love the situation your in so life can be that much better.
I know right? Two paragraphs of intense deep speech, well not done yet.... you know better!
If we listen to external voices, then we allow our dreams to be hijacked. At some point, other people will place limitations on us by doubting our abilities. Be strong and strive ahead letting go those that hold you back. Disappointment comes and goes in life, this is an emotion we have expressed since being born, just now we can verbalize it a lot better.
There is high expectation and than there is reality, and all of us have encountered the two hand in hand. Failure is a necessary and natural part of life, but if we’re going to attain our dreams, we have to summon the courage to deal with what we have failed or quit in the past to strive forward.
Face it, were all expected to be average, its a safe place to be. Being exceptional demands a lot of work and effort to sustain and exceed our goals. Like gravity, life’s circumstances constantly pull on our dreams, tugging us down to mediocrity. Some, like being average, others prefer it, but if your that person who can't stand it and just wants to break free.... DO IT!
"We may start out inspired, but through time we fatigue. Although never intending to abandon our dreams, we begin to make concessions here and there. Through time, our lives become mundane, and our dreams slip away." Someone else once wrote this and it is the truth of life, we allow excuses to become our norm. We all need self-cofidence, we all need to believe in what we have the power to achieve. Look at how fast the world has revolutionized, all the inventions that have gone on to create the world we live in today are from people like you and I who looked outside the box to discover possibilities.
"Many of us play small because we do not allow ourselves to dream. We trap ourselves in reality and never dare to go beyond what we can see with our eyes. Imagination lifts us beyond average by giving us a vision of life that surpasses what we are experiencing currently."
Dreams, goals, visions, hopes, how ever you define it, they are what energize our soul and provide us with a sense of wellbeing. Without them we would not aspire to greatness! I could plug in quotes from all the great leaders, inventors and poets here but its all the lines we have read once before but I will leave you with this:
When one door closes another opens, but were to busy looking at the one that closed to ever noticed the one that sits open. Forget the past memories are wonderful things to look back on, not be stuck in!
So, what's your dream?